Have you ever seen your child’s face when you say “you are a
bad boy/girl or don’t talk to me or directly NO” Children react emotionally to
shaming, it has negative effects. Children’s mind is not developed to
understand that unintentional words and as a result it manifest anxiety, stress
and cripples their little minds.
Kids are innocent, believe in kindness and takes everything literally,
they never feel jealous to anyone so always feed them to be positive, happy and
good things.
So here are some tips to nourish the childhood of your little hearts:
- Don’t say that you are a bad boy/girl, give them a positive comment that you are such a best child.
- Don’t say them straight ‘NO’. They lose self-confidence if they hear “No and you can’t do this!” so try to give them other options instead of saying ‘No'.
- Instead of saying “Don’t play here” use words “call your friends to the park and play with him”.
- Never stop your children to argue just try to convince them with your words. Let them feel free to put their opinion, feeling and expressions.
- Be gentle and polite with kids.
- Even if you are under pressure or stress, never break a channel of communication between you and your child by saying “Don’t talk to me or leave me alone!”
As a parent, it is your responsibility to make your child happy, secure, healthy and confident to face the modern world.
